Monday, 29 September 2014

WHY DO PARENTS SEEK OUT BALLET FOR THEIR KIDS?


I admit it, I want more for my child that I had for myself, than my parents had for themselves.  I seek out activities and research experiences that will challenge, educate and mold my children into the perfect members of society we all wish to see.

All parents want their children to be happy, healthy well adjusted contributing members to our society and then – and only then – will our job as a parent be complete.
Does this sound familiar to anyone??!!

Many parents land at dance lessons for their children as one of the experiences they seek out to complete this mission.  At the studio we get phone calls every day from parents who want this experience for their child. One of cute costumes, glitter, pink tulle, glitter and adorable photo ops, did I mention glitter?!  All the things that are cute and girly. 

While we are at it they will learn so many life lessons : friendships, listening skills, discipline, taking instructions, being responsible for their class attire and shoes, being prepared, respect for others, respect for themselves, self confidence (getting up on stage is REALLY hard!) – the list can go one for miles of all the great things dance can do for your child.

Below is an article that a friend of mine posted – she doesn’t have kids – but she posted it anyway – she believes that strongly in this experience for her unborn child.

Enjoy the article – I know I didJ

Miss Tara

Monday, 15 September 2014

Confessions of Former Dance Mom

As a studio owner and a dance mom, I am in a unique position to see both sides of my business.  I see the schedules and how they affect busy families. I also see how a very busy company makes the best possible use of space while acting in the best interests of those same busy families.  I am making the after school dash to get the kids to class on time, making sure the dinner is healthy thought out and delicious. Making sure there are tights without holes, the proper shoes and a water bottle at hand, whipping hair into a bun at a stop light while asking them how their school day was.

Sometimes it feels overwhelming and that I cannot please anyone – customers, dancers even my own kids. There are days where this is a very thankless job.  Then every once in a while a dancer or a parent makes a special effort to tell you how much what you do means to their family.  Your own child says a genuine thank you in their own special way, reminding you that it is totally worth it.  Every crazy minute of this passionate industry is totally worth it.

Enjoy reading the following article – I think it is a great reminder of why we do so much for our kids.  Why we at APA have shifted our focus to be MORE THAN JUST GREAT DANCING.
Miss Tara

Confessions of a Former Dance Mom
You start by taking your 3 year old daughter to dance class as something to fill an hour of her week and give her an outlet for her energy. She comes home from class and continues to dance around the house, wearing a few spare scarves from your closet or last year’s princess costume from the dress up box – asking every day there after “do I go to dance today?”
Next thing you know, you’re complaining about hours spent driving back and forth to the studio, the later-than-you’d-like rehearsal (on a school night?!), time sitting and waiting at the studio for class to end when you have a million other places to be. And don’t even get me started on the money – tuition, pointe shoes, master classes, pointe shoes, fund raisers, pointe shoes. Did I mention pointe shoes?
You fret and worry that a “normal” childhood is passing her by. She’s not on the field hockey team, she’s not a cheerleader. She’s rarely at the dinner table because she has class almost every night of the week. Family vacations are planned around summer intensive. High school football games and pep rallies are not on the schedule.
You have the podiatrist and physical therapist on speed dial (what teenager is on a first name basis with their podiatrist?) You research snacks and meals for athletes trying to balance between the need to replace all the calories expended on the Marley and the demand to maintain good lines for dance. You read articles about dancers and poor body image from too much time spent looking in a mirror but never seeing the perfection the teacher wants. “Diet” becomes a four letter word in your house.
But before you know it, she’s danced her last Nut and discarded her last pair of pointe shoes and it’s over all too soon. When it’s all over, and she’s left the stage for the last time, will you remember the hours, the money, the worry or the physical toll? My guess is “no”. You will remember the gifts that dance has given her: the ability to prioritize and multi-task, a strong, flexible body, the ability to handle pressure and last minute changes, an appreciation of music not currently heard on I Heart Radio. You will be grateful you are sending your daughter out into the world with a strong work ethic and a long attention span. You will have a great sense of peace knowing your daughter is part of a strong circle of young women equally capable of lifting one another up when the road is rough, as they are at celebrating one another’s triumphs. In the end, you can pat yourself on the back because taking her to that first dance class 15 years ago one of the best parenting decisions you made.
Lisa DeCavalcante